Я уже приготовился читать (во второй статье) стандартную мужененависническую пропаганду. И с огромным изумлением прочитал:
"Men commit suicide at a rate five times that of women while teenage boys commit suicide nine times more often than girls.10 They are also diagnosed with depression and ADHD at a rate of 4-to-1 to girls the same age.11 Men make up 2/3 of the homeless population,12 are more than twice as likely to become alcoholics and are approximately three times more likely to become drug addicts.13 It’s widely documented that men are far less likely to ask for professional help, medical or otherwise, even when experiencing significant health problems or depression.14
Men are the victims of the majority of violent crime, but also far less likely to report it for fear of appearing weak. One survey found that 40% of the victims of domestic violence are men, yet they were far less likely to report the violence and far less likely to be taken seriously by police.15 Men take on more dangerous jobs and are less likely to report any injury suffered at work. Men work far longer hours, take fewer vacations and sick days, and suffer worse symptoms of chronic stress and fatigue. Men even die on the job at a startling rate. In short, most men treat themselves as nothing more than a walking paycheck
And, in fact, it’s this objectification of their own lives that kills men faster.
Women initiate more than 70% of divorces and separations with the most common cause cited as “emotional neglect” from their husbands.17 Those divorces also hit men the hardest: recently divorced men are more likely to suffer depression, alcoholism, mental illness, and suicide than women are
Men are so emotionally incompetent without women, getting married is literally the healthiest thing a man can do in his life. One research summary of emotional suppression went as far to say: “emotional restrictiveness is the leading cause to why men die earlier [than women].”19
Married men live longer and score higher on pretty much every quality-of-life metric there is, including happiness and life expectancy. Marriage is apparently so important for men’s emotional stability that some sociologists go as far as to state that simply being married can raise a man’s life expectancy by almost a decade.20 Elderly men who are in good marriages have lower rates of heart disease, cancer, Alzheimer’s, depression, and stress than elderly single men
Let me state that more clearly: Not dealing with your emotional baggage can literally kill you or make you go crazy.
For all of our strength and power, we sure do die quickly and often. For all of our cunning ambition, we regularly end up miserable, violent, and even suicidal. And for all of our self-sufficiency, we rely on women for our emotional and physical well-being to a startling degree."
Так это все, что и я говорю (и с чем никто не согласен обычно, включая большинство самих М, которым неприятно осознавать свою слабость, зависимость и подчиненное положение)!
Более того, оказывается, многие женщины мужчин объективируют (опредмечивают) за их профессиональные успехи. Многие мужчины, если верить автору, вообще относятся к себе как к ходячей зарплате.